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Racism and Mental Health for Young People

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Being treated differently or unfairly because of our race, skin colour or ethnicity can negatively affect our mental health. Information here includes:

  • Improving mental health
  • Reporting a hate crime
  • Where to get help and support

Being treated differently or unfairly because of our race, skin colour or ethnicity can negatively affect our mental health.

Racism can happen anywhere. It can happen at school, at work, or at home; it can happen online or outside; it can even happen within families and relationships. Sometimes racist abuse is obvious – verbal abuse about the way someone looks, stereotypes about how someone might behave, or physical violence and bullying, for example. Sometimes racism is part of the structures and systems that we live in. And sometimes racism is ‘subtle’ and difficult for other people to notice.

I decided I shouldn’t feel ashamed of who I am – nobody should ever feel ashamed of who they are.

Luke, 15

The important thing is how you see the situation and how it makes you feel. We can spend a lot of time wondering whether we have been badly or unfairly treated because of our skin colour, race or ethnicity, or for some other reason, and it’s not always totally clear. This can make us feel confused or even foolish for talking about our experiences, especially if the people we are talking to have never had to ask themselves these sorts of questions.

Sometimes, even when we are convinced we have experienced racist treatment, people around us might try to tell us we’ve got it wrong. This can feel very lonely and isolating. But remember, you are not alone and your feelings are valid.

It’s also valid if you feel that experiencing racism ‘indirectly’ has an effect on your mental health. Sometimes the things going on around us, to people just like us, can feel like they have happened to us and make us feel personally attacked, helpless, or like our lives don’t matter.

You might also be affected by:

  • racism directed towards your family and loved ones
  • constant negative headlines about a group you identify with or a country you have ties with
  • misrepresentation or no representation in the media
  • noticing worrying patterns of behaviour from the institutions you interact with (whether at your doctor’s surgery, at school, at work)
  • reading statistics that show unfairness and inequality across the justice, health and education system
  • people dismissing how we feel, telling us we’re overreacting, or denying there is a problem

Our experiences of being treated differently from others because of our skin colour, race or ethnicity can mean that we live with constant fear or anxiety. We might start to avoid doing the same things that other people simply do without thinking about. Some examples of this can include:

  • speaking in another language, or with an accent, in public
  • using public transport or going to certain public places alone where you could be a minority
  • using your real name on a job application
  • worrying about interacting with the police
  • worrying about wearing the clothes we want to wear
  • hiding parts of our identity, like our religion or culture
  • sharing our worldview and taking part in topical discussions
  • visiting places, or going on holiday to places, where racism has been reported

Racism, directly or indirectly, touches every person of colour and has an effect on our mental health.

Sian, 19

You might not even be aware that you are doing things like these. If you are constantly making decisions to protect yourself from others, this can affect how you feel. You might find it helpful to think about whether this is something you relate to. By figuring out where our feelings are coming from, it can make them easier to talk about.

It is normal if your experiences of racism – whether big or small, constant or one-off, direct or indirect – affect your self-esteem and/or make you feel angry, depressed or hopeless. It might feel difficult to believe, but things can get better.

Things can change, for you and for society. There are lots of people working hard every day to make a difference so that we can live in a fair and just world. You deserve to feel great about who you are, and to live without fear or prejudice.

If racism is affecting your mental health, there are steps you can take to get the help and support you deserve. Your feelings are valid, and you do not have to go through it alone.

If you are experiencing racism, try and talk to someone. It always helps to have another person aware of what is happening and what you’re feeling.

Luke, 15

What can I do to improve my mental health?

Here are some things you can do if racism is affecting your mental health:

1. Speak to someone you trust about how you are feeling, like a family member or a friend. Talking about how you feel can often be the first step to getting help and finding support. It might feel difficult to talk about how you are feeling or to revisit personal experiences of racism. Take your time and only share what you want to.

You might find it helpful to talk to someone of a similar race or ethnicity to you. The Black, African and Asian therapy network have a directory of specialist Black and minority ethnic (BME) counsellors or therapists.

2. Speak to your GP if you:

  • are experiencing flashbacks or intrusive thoughts about a traumatic incident or think you might have PTSD
  • have a continuously low mood, depression or low self-esteem
  • are feeling numb or empty inside
  • experience changes to your sleeping or eating habits
  • experience any changes to your mood and behaviour that feel out of the ordinary
  • are feeling worried or are anxious a lot of the time

3. Learn your rights and how to report abuse. This can help you feel empowered and remind you that what you are experiencing is not okay and no one should believe that it is.

If you’re experiencing racism online, reporting it is perfectly reasonable and the right thing to do because racial discrimination is illegal.

Luke, 15

4. Find supportive groups and communities who understand what you are going through. It can be very hard to explain how you feel to a person that has not experienced racism, whether directly or indirectly.

Online communities can be a way to find like-minded people with similar experiences and shared interests that you can talk to, have a safe space to be heard and remember that you are not alone.

5. Join a movement to create change. There are many anti-racist movements and organisations who are fighting for change in society. Being part of a larger movement can help you feel empowered, valued and give you a sense of hope that change is possible. Make sure to take time out to rest and look after yourself if you are regularly involved in activism.

I think it is important to remember how far we have come in the last century, both in the fight for racial equality and in mental health awareness.

Wes

6. Remember it is not your responsibility to fix racism. Do not put pressure on yourself – this is a problem you cannot solve on your own. The people around you all have a responsibility to make changes to their behaviour and to uphold the rights of Black and ethnic minority groups.

7. Clean your social media feed. What we see on online can have a negative impact on our mental health, but remember you can have control over what you see on your social media. Try unfollowing or blocking accounts and muting words that upset you. All social media channels have ways you can report abusive behaviour.

Read our guidance on how you can report, mute or block accounts on social media.

If you need to, do not be afraid to go on a social media detox – your mental health is important.

Wes

Blogs on racism and mental health

Read our blogs written by young people on racism and mental health:

Racism and my mental health
“Nobody has any right to discriminate against you based on your race or ethnicity. Ever.” Our Activist Luke, 15, shares how his experience of racism has affected his mental health.

Black mental health matters
Everybody deserves mental health support when they need it. Our guest blogger, Wes, shares why it’s important that we talk about Black mental health.

How racism impacts my mental health
Sian, 19, shares how racism affects her mental health, and what helps her cope.

Reporting a hate crime

Any crime motivated by hostility or prejudice towards someone because of their race or ethnicity is a ‘hate crime’. Anybody can report a hate crime – whether they are the victim, someone who witnessed the crime, or someone the victim has told about the crime or incident.

You can report a hate crime online, via the True Vision website.

It is the world that’s wrong, not you. So embrace your identity and love what makes you, you.

Sian, 19

What should I do if I think a mental health professional is being racist?

Any mental health professional who you are interacting with has a duty of care to do their best to support you. If you are not happy with how a mental health professional is behaving towards you, you have a right to speak out.

How you can raise a complaint:

  • Every NHS service provider (such as your GP, or hospital) has their own complaints procedure. You can find information on making a complaint on your service provider’s website, in waiting rooms, or by talking to a member of staff.
  • You can choose to complain to the NHS service provider directly, or to the commissioner of the services, which is the body that pays for the NHS services you use.
  • You can make a complaint verbally, in writing, or by email.
  • Once you have made a complaint, you should expect an acknowledgement and the offer of a discussion about the handling of your complaint within working days.
  • Visit the NHS webpage on making complaints for more guidance.

If you need help and support with making a complaint, you can contact your local NHS Complaints Advocacy service. This is a free and confidential service, independent from the NHS and is an opportunity for you to talk to someone about your complaint. They can give you assistance and support throughout the complaint process.

Where to get help and support

Stop Hate UK

  • confidential and accessible support for victims and witnesses of hate crime
  • http://www.stophateuk.org/
  • Call Hate Out : a 24-hour support service for young people under 18 experiencing or witnessing a hate crime
  • call 0808 801 0576 or text 07717989025

Equality and Human Rights Commission

Black Minds Matter

  • https://www.blackmindsmatteruk.com/
  • connects Black individuals and families with professional mental health services across the UK
  • send them a message on their website to be connected with a Black therapist

Online sessions available for individuals

Free initial telephone consultation. Call 07548 690170

Other blogs on racism and mental health

Read our blogs written by young people on racism and mental health:

Racism and my mental health
“Nobody has any right to discriminate against you based on your race or ethnicity. Ever.” Our Activist Luke, 15, shares how his experience of racism has affected his mental health.

Black mental health matters
Everybody deserves mental health support when they need it. Our guest blogger, Wes, shares why it’s important that we talk about Black mental health.

How racism impacts my mental health
Sian, 19, shares how racism affects her mental health, and what helps her cope.

Online sessions available for individuals

Free initial telephone consultation. Call 07548 690170

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TECHFORCE19 WINNERS: SUPPORTING MENTAL HEALTH

The Mental Health Challenge

Since the Government introduced measures around social distancing in response to the Covid-19 spread, Britons have been required to isolate, reduce contact with others, and change the way we interact with friends, neighbours and colleagues. From the moment these measures were announced, there has been concern from a number of sources about the toll that adapting could take on individuals’ mental health. 

Health authorities and Mental Health Charities have done incredible work putting out resources to help those who may be experiencing problems at this time. Health Charity Mind has outlined many possible difficulties that, if you’re forced to stay at home, you may struggle with and that could affect your mental health. Likewise, the NHS have released a guide to keeping your mind healthy while at home as part of the ‘Every Mind Matters’ initiative. 

The unprecedented challenges presented by the crisis meant that mental health was a clear area in which digital solutions might provide effective support to those facing difficulties. To help companies identify areas of particular importance, TechForce19 split the mental health challenge into 4 sub themes, detailed below:

  • Discovering and delivering mental health services
  • Accessing relevant and inclusive peer 2 peer communities
  • Supporting self-management of mental health and well-being
  • Facilitating employee well-being

The chosen companies

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Mental Health Awareness Week – Kindness Matters

Research shows that protecting our mental health is going to be central to us coping with and recovering from the coronavirus pandemic – with the psychological and social impacts likely to outlast the physical symptoms of the virus.  

Acts of kindness have the potential to make the world a happier place.

We want to see a world where kindness is built into business decisions, government policy and official systems. However, we can start by individual commitment to showing kindness in our words and our actions. 

You might want to do something for someone else or take note if you experience an act of kindness.  

Not sure where to start?   

We’ve put together some suggestions to help you out…  

At home and in your community  

  • Call a friend who you haven’t spoken to for a while  
  • Post a card or letter to someone you are out of touch with  
  • Send flowers to a friend, out of the blue  
  • Find out if a neighbour needs any help with shopping  
  • Ring someone who is on their own, or video call them  
  • Send someone a handwritten thank you note  
  • Tell your family how much you love and appreciate them  
  • Help with household chores  
  • Offer to help an elderly or vulnerable neighbour  
  • Check on someone you know who is going through a tough time  

At work  

  • Remember to say hi to colleagues and ask how they are – whether that’s face-to-face, or virtually if you are working from home  
  • Offer to support colleagues who may not be familiar with videoconferencing or new software that you have already used  
  • Set up a virtual coffee/lunch club – with your regular colleagues and with new ones  
  • Have a conversation with a colleague you don’t normally talk to   
  • Get to know a new member of staff – it is hard to join a new workplace under these restrictions  
  • Lend your ear – listen to your colleague who is having a bad day  
  • Say thank you to a colleague who has helped you  
  • Praise a colleague for something they have done well  

In public places  

  • Follow the rules on social isolation – but don’t make negative assumptions about others  
  • Wish a passer-by a good morning or afternoon from an appropriate distance (2 metres or more)  
  • Be a considerate cyclist/driver  
  • Pick up some rubbish lying around in the street  
  • Smile and say hello to people you may pass every day, but have never spoken to before from an appropriate distance (2 metres or more)  

On social media  

  • Take time to reach out online to people you haven’t seen for a while  
  • Write something nice or encouraging on a post you appreciate  
  • Acknowledge and validate someone’s story – if they are having a difficult time you don’t have to have all the answers, sometimes a like or a brief ‘I’m sorry to hear this, is there something I can do?’ is enough to make them feel heard  
  • Think about what you share – look at the source of the post, and the tone. If it isn’t kind, think twice. If something could upset others and you feel you need to post it, use a trigger or content warning  
  • Think about your comments and replies. Try not to say nasty things, or pile on where somebody questions another person’s actions   

Evidence shows that being kind really does improve your wellbeing.1 What’s more, the more you do for others, the more they are likely to do for you.11  

With this in mind, we’re suggesting that we all try to help others once a day for a week and see if it makes a difference to how we feel.  

You can take joy in being deliberately kind – whether by recognising the time you have for your kids or partner, to speaking more to family, or by volunteering in your community.     

Try to keep track of:  

  • any volunteering that you’ve done  
  • support you’ve given to friends and family  
  • any random acts of kindness that you’ve carried out  
  • what others have done for you.  

Remember to make a note of how they made you feel.  

You could try keeping a gratitude journal. Write down three things you are grateful for each day, or simply say these to yourself as the day draws to a close.  

It’s important to be kind to yourself as well 

Whatever you can manage today is good enough. Some people feel that the lockdown is giving them the time and chance to learn new skills or try new things. That may be you, and if so, enjoy and celebrate that.     

If this isn’t you, try not to beat yourself up about what you see others doing. If things are hard right now, try and find some small things to celebrate each day. Getting up and washing your hair can be just as much of an achievement as someone else posting about a 5k run on Instagram.  

Try to tune out the voice of judgement and comparison and tune in to the voice that says you are enough.  

Be kind to yourself 

  • Prioritise some “me” time, so you can relax and reflect on how you’re feeling and how your day or week has been so far  
  • Turn off from your social media channels for a day, or even a week  
  • Treat yourself to something small, such as buying or planting some flowers  
  • Do something you enjoy, like listening to a favourite song or dancing in your kitchen  
  • Spend some time in nature, which is good for our mental health   

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The Power of Positive Feedback

A two minute way to improve workplace wellbeing and productivity in 2020

A managing director of a large media company (let’s call her Joanna) admitted that she never told people when they had done something well. Her reason? “That is what they’re paid for,” she explained.

If they were doing a satisfactory job, Joanna’s argument suggested, it seemed unnecessary to praise them. The view from the people who worked for her was likely to be quite different. They don’t know when they’ve done a good job because no one tells them. In search of approval, they keep trying new approaches, often ignoring successful ideas for others that have less chance of working.

So, what’s the best way to offer feedback? There are times when a quick “nicely done” is sufficient. However, if you want the impact of praise to last and you want a good chance at changing how a person does things in the future, then you would do well to follow the steps of the five-star praise model.

5 Star Praise Model

Follow the five steps in just two minutes
Step   Example
1. Provide Context   If the praise isn’t given immediately, then it will help the person if you describe a bit of context. For example, “The board meeting that you had prepared the report for took place yesterday afternoon.”  
2. Be Specific   The more specific the praise, the more effective it is. By just saying “Thanks for the report; it was great,” you are not giving the person anything they can use and apply in the future. Was the report great because it was long, had pictures, started with a succinct summary, included questions for the reader to answer, or what? The best praise focuses on specifics. Again, find a balance. Simply telling the staff member (in the previous example) “Great report” might not be enough. But telling her “I particularly liked the way you listed out the contents alongside the diagrams in order” is possibly over the top.   “The report was just the right balance of data and analysis for the managers to digest in the board meeting.”
3. Describe the Impact   This is the part that motivates. When people understand the positive consequences of their behaviour, it’s a big incentive for them to repeat the good things they did. Again, a balance needs to be struck. Overstating the impact (e.g., “You saved my life by preparing such a great report”) will sound fake, and your praise will have significantly less impact–if any–because it almost sounds like you’re mocking the situation.   “After reviewing the report, it was easy for the managers to pick up on the key areas to focus on, you saved them hours of work which is not usually the case”
4. Reinforce their identity   This makes the person feel really good about themselves and/or their actions. You might say, “I have to compliment you. Not only was dinner delicious but to get that many interesting people together and make sure they were all served at the same time, as well as engage in conversation as the host, is simply impressive. That’s organisation and attention to detail at its finest.”   I have to say I am impressed how you thought outside the box and redesigned the format for the team.”
5. Congratulate   This is usually the beginning, middle, and end of praising. It has a role but if it’s all you do, you get only one star. When your praise earns five stars, you know you’ve done it right. It takes practice. But it’s not like we all don’t have a bunch of people in our lives who deserve some praise right now.   “So thanks again and keep up the great ideas and hard work.”

Think of a couple of situations in which you might praise someone and think about how to give them the full five-star praise effect.

Jot down the suggestions and confirm: Does the praise seem real? If it feels fake, think about another way of making your points.

If you can’t find anything to praise, then of course it’s possible that there isn’t anything the other person is doing well. However, it’s far more likely that you simply aren’t looking hard enough.

Praise if someone delivers something when they said they would, or even, possibly, when they are less late than usual. And don’t forget to mention the beneficial impact this punctuality has.

Positive feedback or 5 star praise can be used at with friends and family too. Give it go and see the results.

I’d love to hear the positive impacts for the workplace, parenting and relationships.

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World Mental Health – Take 5 minutes to create a great plan

It takes less than 5 mins !

Take the 5 minute Mind Plan quiz to create a simple, achievable wellbeing plan

The World Health Organisation recognises World Mental Health Day on 10 October every year.

We encourage people to look after their mental health all year round, but today is a great opportunity to consider the different ways that we can boost our wellbeing, and to start a conversation about mental health.

This week saw the launch of Every Mind Matters, a campaign from Public Health England and the NHS providing information and ideas for your wellbeing. It’s great to see so many people talking about mental health.

Watch the Every Mind Matters video

Take the 5 minute Mind Plan quiz to create a simple, achievable wellbeing plan

Here are some tips for looking after your wellbeing – this World Mental Health Day and beyond:

Stay active

Physical activity can really help with keeping your mood positive. Even if you are very busy, find time to do some exercise you enjoy – we know it’s getting colder but consider hopping off the tube a stop earlier and walking the rest of the way, avoid the lift and take the stairs or sign up to an impromtu exercise class after work!

Get enough sleep

Often sleep is a casualty when we are stressed, anxious or depressed, but we know it is vital for our wellbeing. Avoid stimulants such as caffeine in the evening. Have some wind-down time before going to bed and try and keep to a regular sleep routine. Avoid looking at screens in bed, even mobile phones. Finally, consider your sleep environment (such as light, temperature and noise), and make sure it is comfortable and conducive to sleeping!

Give yourself space

If it’s all getting a bit hectic, take time out – even if it’s brief! Go for a walk, have a cuppa with a colleague (away from your desk), listen to music.

Eat regular meals

It can be tempting to overdo it but keeping your routine, eating plenty of fruit and veg, and drinking enough water will help keep stress at bay.

Stay supported

You are not alone! Stay connected to your sources of support and if you’re not sure where to turn, you’ll find details of some useful organisations here.

and most importantly… look out for each other! 

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Why ‘zipping up’ helps to improve confidence and feel less threatened.

The Zip Up exercise

What is it ? Why do it?

  • The central meridian is one of the two energetic pathways feeding to the central nervous system. The central meridian pathway starts at your pubic bone and finishes at your bottom lip
  • The exercise strengthens your central meridian circuit by grounding, and centring. The effect is to lift your spirits, boost confidence and clear negative thought patterns
  • The zip up protects against negative outside energies – it creates a strong boundary/ protective field around your body and reduces vulnerability to people and environments
  • Using the zip-up technique on the central meridian enhances the energetic protection
  • Stay protected and teach this technique to loved ones.
  • The exercise can be part of the five-minute daily energy routine to boost immunity and maintain balanced health and energy

Let’s do it !!

Step 1     Briskly tap or massage on K-27 (kidney points). The points are located below our collarbone near our shoulder where it dips. This first step encourages that the body’s electrical energy moves in a positive forward direction.

You can choose to cross over your hands and arms to massage the points at the same time on opposite sides – this will help cross over our energies which move asymmetrically to heal and energise and will also cross over our right and left brain hemispheres.

Step 1 – Stimulate forward energy movement

Step 2   Now place both hands over the area at the bottom end of the central meridian – at your pubic bone.

Steps 2 and 3

Step 3     Take a deep breath in as you pull your hands slowly and deliberately, straight up in one continuous movement up the centre of your body to your lower lip. This pulls and traces the energy upwards.

This movement protects the central meridian and pulls energy upward

Make an affirmation as you are zipping up either in your mind or out loud such as; ‘I am safe, I am loved.’ Saying an affirmation whilst tracing your central meridian strengthens the central meridian and picks up your own thoughts and feelings as well as others affecting your energy. It can work in changing your beliefs and actions about and toward yourself and others, goals you want to achieve, and problems you want to resolve.

Exhale that breath and as you do keeping dragging the energy straight up over your face and above your head as far as your hands reach then circle out back downward in a large circle ending at the pelvis area.

This movement connects your energy and intention with your aura and universal energies.

Step 4     Repeat steps 2 and 3 three more times.

When can us it? ….. anytime

  • Choose to do as part of your morning wake up routine
  • Nip to the bathroom and do the zip up before a difficult meeting or when you tend to feel exposed or challenged.

What people say about using the zip up exercise

I cannot recommend this energy exercise enough. Not only has it helped me on numerous occasions when I was not feeling good, it has also helped my overall confidence over time. Friends and colleagues have noticed the changes and I have shared the exercise with them. Thanks so much Christine, you always know the best recommendations.

Used this exercise as I have difficult work relationships. All I can say is that it works!!!! Has made my days easier to manage. So simple. Thank you.

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